Dear people, I have met some strangely annoying people in my life. People who are so confusing and confused, they make you doubt yourself at a point because they start making you confused too. People who can be rude, arrogant and oblivious when it comes to you ( yet they are completely blinded by their own flaws) and when you try to point it out suddenly you are “annoying” or unwanted….yet why is it alright for them to talk to you like that?
It’s simple you have high tolerance and according to me and the last time I checked that is a very good quality to possess. Not only do you have high tolerance but your life is too precious to be wasted on over analyzing people, putting them down or analyzing their behavior.
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It is amazing how many people you will meet in your life yet only a few will remain; more amazing how many people you will meet will most probably harm you more than do you good. It gets tiring, sometimes you feel like the road is long and weary and you need a friend….yet you turn around to look but can find only your reflection. You can feel lonely sitting in a room filled with tons of friends, and you may have perfected not feeling lonely although you are sitting alone.
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Sometimes all someone needs is a shoulder to lean on, a pair of listening ears to speak too. No, not looking for positive criticism or enlightening advice. Just looking to talk and let it all out because sometimes what we keep inside creates this heavy, suffocating burden in our chest; so heavy you find it hard to breath. So we look for petty distractions, we engross ourselves in our endless work and want to come home exhausted so we do not get the chance to think or ponder about the mysteries of this world.
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Yes I am sure all of us have embraced and faced the arrogant, the narcissist, the annoying one…the boring one, the drama queen ( hands down for myself ), the diva ….the one that cannot stop reminiscing about how the past, the immature one , the macho man….surprisingly we remain patient, and kind to them all. We listen, we tolerate we make up theories like …surely their child hood has something to do with this. Yet we do not overtly judge or get bothered by it in some extreme manner.
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So why can’t people tolerate us ? recently someone told me that I think I am on top of the world with everything…maybe I am just a dreamer who knows but growing up is a learning process…you observe, you listen through experience you learn. If you are not harming yourself, or harming people around you physically or emotionally and god knows you do your best to be kind and generous to all mankind, then do not ever feel bad for being a “ dreamer” or “ on top of the world”. Live in your own bubble if you please, and when people tell you your immature, or to get a life, or call you crazy , weird and accuse you for talking to much …just smile to yourself and say …” you have no idea” …

























