And they say….

It’s all about optimistic, positive people. They all are the rave today. Everyone wants to be their friend, because god forbid if you wanted to speak about a little situation you had,  people will say you are complaining & nagging (and that you are being a drama queen, in my case anyways) So please be quite and refrain from speaking to your friends. That is why the crazy cat lady has so many cats and no friends, people thought she was a crazy, nagging woman so she had to go talk to cats instead. That is my theory anyways.

So you are probably wondering, if I cannot nag or complain to my friends what do I do? Do I go make conversation with them about something irrelevant and uninteresting to please them and just spark up a conversation? Well, if you really are bored and have free time on your hands go ahead. Otherwise, rule number one, do not surround yourself with positive, optimistic wannabe’s they are just making you feel bad and putting you down. Real positive, optimistic people listen to you and try to be there for you and try to figure out with you what you could do to be better. They do not tell you; “Right, you are just so bored “, ” you are overanalyzing everything just relax”, ” your complaining that’s why I talk to you this way” ” you are a nagger” drum roll please for the most classic line “ You are such a drama queen”. To be honest, that title is growing on me.

Never feel bad for who you are or how you feel, if people put you down for it, then shut these people out  and surround yourself with people who do not make you feel bad, or annoy you or frustrate you. It just happens you are comfortable with some people and others you are not there is nothing wrong with that.  Some people would love to hear you talking for ages others will not, but don’t feel bad when someone tells you to shut up or to stop “complaining” we both know they have weak moments too but they do not share it with people.

Being in touch with yourself and wanting to let it out is fine, its healthy, cry a little , nag, complain about the tragedy of the human race & our selfish behaviors as much as you want…just never hurt, harm or disrespect anyone or anything you never know when you may need that thing or person. Do not undermine the strength of your words or come backs to people there are a lot of things you may say that might hurt people intentionally or not, if you do not want people hurting you in any way than do not risk it with the smart, snarky come backs when people try to talk to you, no it does not make you look smart, intellectual or cool in anyway just maybe despised a little.

P.S like I said before Ladies & Gentleman surround yourself with happy, optimistic people who are kind and generous…but with caution please you do not want to get frustrated & end up beating up someone who is overtly happy & annoying for no apparent reason, because sometimes we do just want to be bitter for awhile.